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Love is such a pure and beautiful thing which has now become a mandatory phase for all teenagers to grow up with. We can see teenagers saying they are in a relationship or blah blah blah… When you are in love, it is not necessary to call it a relationship. Relationship starts when you become mature enough to take full responsibility of you and your partner to live your life together. In case of true love, you two enjoy being together but it is not good to keep expectations in anything from each other. It is the main factor to ruin your beautiful life.  You can dream your future and move together to fulfill it. You should understand each other with full loyalty. Loyalty and maturity is what determines you when you say you are about to start a relationship. Maturity is not when you realize you can't live without each other but it is when you realize you need to live together. Spend your time with those who love you unconditionally, not with those who only love you under certain...

Speaking honestly, I had never imagined myself as an engineer when my brain had just begun to think about future as well but I always wanted myself to be different from anybody else. I also wanted to think everything in different way . And then suddenly I heard about the magic done by the people who were none other than engineers. Actually engineering is the closest thing to magic that exists in the world. Still I was busy in wondering how this whole world was created and what or who created it. A lot of interest arose inside me in astronomy. I always dreamed of travelling the whole universe being an astronaut. But here I am today, reading engineering course and hoping to be a perfect and successful engineer in future. Sometimes we dream only to make that particular moment special. You, who are reading this blog, may not be an engineer or an engineering student so at first I want to make you clear that I am not neglecting any of your profession to an engineer but myself being an en...

Thousands of people are born whereas thousands of people are dying in a second, dreams of thousands of people are fulfilled whereas thousands of people are still unknown about their dreams and future. It will be quite shocking to listen that these both types of people live in the same land, under the same sky, breathing the same air but all these differences, Why? Because it only matters how we use what we get in life not only what we get in our life. We have some misunderstandings that poor and unprivileged people are given more challenges in life. Actually, people become poor and remain backward only because they couldn’t give enough effort to overcome their challenges in life. I agree they are given the toughest challenges than any others, but we don’t have any other option rather than accepting and overcoming the challenges. Successful life is not only to be famous and gain prosperity, it is making our life fruitful by successfully overcoming the challenges.  Every sin...

Life is not perfect for everyone. Different challenges are put in the journey of our life just to check how we deal with it. No matter how much you maintain yourself, you are definitely going to be checked from most of the types of problems. So, be ready to prepare yourself. Life is planning a lot just for you. Yes, you can make yourself strong, be positive but unless you have a support around you, it’ll be quite harder for you to deal its consequences. Without support you may feel more distraught and shattered. Your heart plays major role while facing the challenges. Be ready to make it strong but we can’t make it strong just by ourselves, we need support. Need someone’s hand on our shoulder. Sometimes that small gesture can save our heart from suffering. Actually, I don’t mean it to say being alone you can’t face anything. You may, depending upon its consequences. But with the help of support you can face everything. You can just get passed through every obstacle. So, from this...

Nepal batsman Arif Sheikh in action during a World Cup Qualifier play off cricket match between Nepal and Papua New Guinea at Old Hararians Sports Club March 15 2018 (©ICC). Starting from Division 5 in 2008, we are now among the ODI (One Day International) cricket nation with other 15 teams.   It seems itself a great achievement to the players who have been through a lot of hard work, sacrifice and patience. Though I have mentioned this above as an achievement but it is also the beginning of the new era to Nepal’s cricket. Better I’d say as an opportunity to enhance to the next level where now Afghanistan and Ireland have reached. After gaining ODI status, we are guaranteed to play in World Cricket League Championship and The Intercontinental cup which is the highest-level tournament for Associate cricket and also the path to gain Test Status. Yeah! We are now an ODI cricket nation, but all joy goes down when we realize that our cricket board has been suspended and we are y...

Well, I deserve to be what you think of me. It is me only who compel you to think so and I agree on you in this matter. I can’t be what you wish me to be. Its because there may be something I am not being able to understand. I shouldn’t have taken your words seriously but there was nothing to stop me from doing so, not even you. And today not only me, perhaps you too are suffering from this. I reckon you as a circle. No matter how much you travel to the infinite points in various direction, at last you will always come to the point from where you had started being with me. But the problem is that I always behave like a tangent, thinking something straightly towards the same direction not keeping in mind that your direction is going to change every time, when I find you reach a new point every time. As your thoughts are broad, the circle you are making also seems to be broad. And then there is me whose area occupied being a tangent is almost negligible, so does my thoughts. I don...

काश म चरा अनि तिमी चरी भइदिएको भए काश म चरा अनि तिमी चरी भइदिएको भए, न कसैले देख्ला  भन्ने डर न समय धेरै बित्ला भन्ने डर आफ्नै हुन्थ्यो सारा आकाश, आफ्नै हुन्थ्यो बादल तिर्खा लागे खोला नदी, भोक लागे काफल नाचिन्थ्यो आफ्नै धुनमा, चाहिँदैनथ्यो मादल मात्र तिमी मेरो अनि म तिम्रो, माया नै माया हुन्थ्यो जिन्दगीमा हाम्रो ।। साहारा हामी एकअर्काको अनि हाम्रो साहारा प्रकृति न पैसाको पछि सङ्घर्ष गर्नु पर्ने न त जिन्दगीलाई सुन्दर बनाउन पैसा देखाउन पर्ने जे भएर बाँचे पनि उद्येश्य हाम्रो खुसी हुनु पर्ने तिमी मसँग खुसी, म तिमीसँग अनि हाम्रो साहारा प्रकृति माथि आकाश हुन्थ्यो, वरिपरि प्रेमले मिसिएको हावा माया नै माया हुन्थ्यो जिन्दगीमा हाम्रो ।।

Imagine you get home from a long day at work. You’re absolutely exhausted, and your best friend invites you out for a night on the town. Despite being tired, you say yes, and by the end of the evening, you actually feel energized. It may seem contradictory to get an energy boost from such an outing, but dedicating time to deep social relationships will boost your long-term happiness. Just consider the positive psychologists, Ed Diener and Martin Seligman, who looked at the differences between “very happy people” and those who were less satisfied. The only significant difference between the groups was that those who saw their lives as happier had strong circles of family, friends and/or romantic partners. So, while spending time with the special people in your life may not be enough to make you happy, it certainly plays a major role. After all, by sharing your life with others, you invite them to share their lives with you. You open your thoughts, feelings and experiences to th...

I don’t know how to write about the whole year in just a few paragraphs, so here is just a glimpse of the year 2017. In those 365 days, every day started with some new thoughts, ideas and plans and ended with the new experiences, sometimes with satisfaction and sometimes being depressed. In the last days of the year, we must cherish with those moments that gave a smile on our face. The year 2017 was the beginning of my next phase of life as I started my mechanical engineer bachelor study in the same year. I have chosen my source of identity as mechanical engineer and in the coming years, I need to prove it. Another reason to cherish the year is I got a lot of time to spend with my family at home and enjoyed the festive season with them because you don’t know what coming years is planning for us. There are some of the dates I am never going to forget. Those are such memorable moments which always makes me remember the year 2017. I also had my birthday celebration with some o...

The day started with desire to cut off boredom but it ended giving me the sweetest memory of all time. I am not here to explain what had happened that day but to remember those beautiful moments. Every moment I spend with you is like a beautiful dream come true. When I walk next to you, I often want to forget where we are going. I just to want to walk with you holding your hands spreading sweet fragrance of love in the air. I always want to stop the time when you are with me. I never thought anyone would ever make me smile, laugh and capture my heart as far as you have. Actually you look divine! If I were to present your face to heaven then many angels will hide their face in shame. I love the way you talk, I love the way you walk, I love the way you look at me, I love the way you smile, I love the way you feel shy and I love the way you are. Your presence is enough to make my day the best among all. When I see you, my heart starts to jump with joy and beats faster. When you are wit...