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Well, I deserve to be what you think of me. It is me only who compel you to think so and I agree on you in this matter. I can’t be what you wish me to be. Its because there may be something I am not being able to understand. I shouldn’t have taken your words seriously but there was nothing to stop me from doing so, not even you. And today not only me, perhaps you too are suffering from this. I reckon you as a circle. No matter how much you travel to the infinite points in various direction, at last you will always come to the point from where you had started being with me. But the problem is that I always behave like a tangent, thinking something straightly towards the same direction not keeping in mind that your direction is going to change every time, when I find you reach a new point every time. As your thoughts are broad, the circle you are making also seems to be broad. And then there is me whose area occupied being a tangent is almost negligible, so does my thoughts. I don...

काश म चरा अनि तिमी चरी भइदिएको भए काश म चरा अनि तिमी चरी भइदिएको भए, न कसैले देख्ला  भन्ने डर न समय धेरै बित्ला भन्ने डर आफ्नै हुन्थ्यो सारा आकाश, आफ्नै हुन्थ्यो बादल तिर्खा लागे खोला नदी, भोक लागे काफल नाचिन्थ्यो आफ्नै धुनमा, चाहिँदैनथ्यो मादल मात्र तिमी मेरो अनि म तिम्रो, माया नै माया हुन्थ्यो जिन्दगीमा हाम्रो ।। साहारा हामी एकअर्काको अनि हाम्रो साहारा प्रकृति न पैसाको पछि सङ्घर्ष गर्नु पर्ने न त जिन्दगीलाई सुन्दर बनाउन पैसा देखाउन पर्ने जे भएर बाँचे पनि उद्येश्य हाम्रो खुसी हुनु पर्ने तिमी मसँग खुसी, म तिमीसँग अनि हाम्रो साहारा प्रकृति माथि आकाश हुन्थ्यो, वरिपरि प्रेमले मिसिएको हावा माया नै माया हुन्थ्यो जिन्दगीमा हाम्रो ।।

Imagine you get home from a long day at work. You’re absolutely exhausted, and your best friend invites you out for a night on the town. Despite being tired, you say yes, and by the end of the evening, you actually feel energized. It may seem contradictory to get an energy boost from such an outing, but dedicating time to deep social relationships will boost your long-term happiness. Just consider the positive psychologists, Ed Diener and Martin Seligman, who looked at the differences between “very happy people” and those who were less satisfied. The only significant difference between the groups was that those who saw their lives as happier had strong circles of family, friends and/or romantic partners. So, while spending time with the special people in your life may not be enough to make you happy, it certainly plays a major role. After all, by sharing your life with others, you invite them to share their lives with you. You open your thoughts, feelings and experiences to th...

I don’t know how to write about the whole year in just a few paragraphs, so here is just a glimpse of the year 2017. In those 365 days, every day started with some new thoughts, ideas and plans and ended with the new experiences, sometimes with satisfaction and sometimes being depressed. In the last days of the year, we must cherish with those moments that gave a smile on our face. The year 2017 was the beginning of my next phase of life as I started my mechanical engineer bachelor study in the same year. I have chosen my source of identity as mechanical engineer and in the coming years, I need to prove it. Another reason to cherish the year is I got a lot of time to spend with my family at home and enjoyed the festive season with them because you don’t know what coming years is planning for us. There are some of the dates I am never going to forget. Those are such memorable moments which always makes me remember the year 2017. I also had my birthday celebration with some o...